Ever wondered which is the most sexual and feminine sexual
position?
Well, the award undoubtedly goes to the missionary position! Yes, that old andboring man on top that can
bring more satisfaction than you could imagine. No acrobatic positions, no pain and struggle, just complete
focus on the pleasure sex should bring to both the partners.
This position is both feminine and erotic.
It offers the perfect environment for a woman to feel loved,
taken care of and close to you at the same time. The missionary position is also the most comforting to finish for the
woman and, with a little communication, for the man as well.
If you're still not convinced maybe you should fine-tune it a
little bit.
A couple of hard pillows under her hips and the difference will make her moan with pleasure.
You can gently spread her legs or just suggest her she should wrap them around your waist.
Put one or both over your shoulders and you'll get the effect of a
turbo engine.
With some training and patience this position will soon become
number one. And all of this because it is perhaps the most adaptable one. Everybody can
feel great while making love in the missionary position.
Many women find it easier to have an orgasm in this position
because they are more relaxed and don't have to think about their performance as in other positions. All they have to do is close their eyes, sit back and relax while the orgasm slowly surrounds them.
This position can give the woman plenty of clitoral stimulation if
the man leans forward thus rubbing his pelvic bone against her clitoris. It also allows the manual stimulation of
her clitoris. The missionary position is just great for those who
love intimacy during sex as they can remain face to face while making love and enjoy each other as they reach orgasm
to the full. The man can kiss and caress the woman, touch her
breasts and abdomen while
she can touch and rub his head, shoulders, back, and butt.
If at any time during sex in the missionary position you need to
make a little change, you can always roll around and shift into a different one without too much trouble. All of this
adds variety to a position many consider to dull to bring pleasure.
All in all, the missionary position feels so natural and erotic
that it could never become obsolete.
Want to learn even more awesome positions to drive both her and you wild?
About The Author:
Caterina Christakos is a published author and dating coach. Learn how to seduce women now. Go to: http://www.what-women-want.com
Domestic Violence - Ask Agony Aunt - updated
Dear Agony Aunt
My partner abuses me mentally and physically - what should I do?
Agony Aunt Says:
Ask a dozen people and each one of them will give you as many opinions. Remember, they are opinions. Ultimately, you have to make a choice - it's your life.
Even full time professionals get it wrong from time to time because they often focus on what they are taught. They go through the "processes" and on occasions they forget that each case is unique; they forget they are dealing with real people. Fortunately, such mistakes are rare.
What would I do if I were placed in a situation that you describe?
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I would immediately ensure my personal safety.
If I face any immediate danger, I would call the authorities. Otherwise, I would move away from the threat and seek help from a lawyer. If necessary, the lawyer would take appropriate steps to stop the threats and the violence.
Of course, by consulting a lawyer, I know that I may be putting my relationship on the line as my partner may react adversely to this. But then the choice is between putting the relationship at risk or my personal and emotional well being.
Refuse to live in fear.
I take the view that mental and or physical violence is not acceptable - I have a zero tolerance for it.
A relationship only works properly when the parties respect human dignity.
If my partner doesn't respect me and uses violence, I would put my foot down on the very first occasion and say that if it happens once more, that will be the end of the relationship. If it happens a second time, I would end the relationship.
Violence doesn't have any place in a truly loving relationship.
Here's another important tip: most offenders carry on because victims keeps quiet.
Bring the violence out in the open - and your partner may change. If not, don't put up with it - you can do far better with your life; don't waste it behind violent creatures.
*** Important disclaimer: I simply offer my "opinion"
so you may compare it with help available via your local professionals. You should always seek local professional help and advice before taking any action.
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Having Sex or Making Love
Having sex or making love?
Actually, the difference between the two concepts is bigger than some of us would like it
to be. And, as almost every time, women feel it the most. What is the difference? Well,
love. Women need to be protected, looked after and loved as much in bed as in every day
life.
Keep in mind that this is not just a legend used by women to manipulate men. The
difference between having sex and making love, together with it's implications in a
couple's sex life is what many men forget when sharing the bed-sheets with a woman.
Clearly, everything written so far will not apply to one-night-stands. In those cases it is
all about a sexual intercourse between two people who only share their bodies. After the
bottom line has been drawn, most men feel good about themselves after a one-night-
stand, without thinking about their sexual performance. Totally pleasing a woman from
the very first time is no easy job as the only mystery she had disclosed is her body.
Yet, most men are attracted to one-night-stands or, with other words, to having sex. The
lack of commitment needed and the easy attaining of the main goal: feeling good, are just
two reasons pleading in favor of having sex.
On the other hand there is so much more between a man and a woman making love.
There are feelings and emotions, leading to a totally different connection between the two
of them. More than that, for women, one of the most important things during sex is the
environment. And this means everything from location to those few candles some like to
place around the bed.
Let's take them in turn a little bit. If you want to leave her smiling and begging for a
cigarette and some more there are some things you might like to take into consideration.
Trying dad's old car's rear suspension will make the car happier than her. The ideal
location would certainly be a bed in a nice and cozy room with nothing interfering with
the moment. Someone knocking on the door or even a ringing phone can have very
undesirable effects. Some candle-like lights and easy-listening music in the background
adds even more to the overall foreplay.
Explore every inch of her body and draw imaginary contours with your fingers and
tongue, kiss her neck, breasts, belly and legs, all in a specific order surrounding the most
important area and closing in at the same time. All this will increase the tension and when
that moment comes both you and her will feel the difference.
Communication is essential for great results. Men must pay attention to the unspoken
signs every woman gives them. Ignoring these signs will make women feel used. The old
legend that says that when a woman says "no" she actually means "yes" is nothing more
than a poor excuse so keep your ears open for her desires.
If all goes well, you might be given the supreme sexual command and that's "don't stop!"
When you hear that, whatever you do, DON'T STOP!
About The Author:
Caterina Christakos is a published author and dating coach. Learn what really turns women on at: http://www.what-women-want.com
